The Pitfall of Sharing the Mic with the Wrong People

😳We all have one. That person that makes you doubt your value. Your worth. Your skill. 

👯‍♀️Maybe it’s a family member. Maybe it’s a friend. Maybe it’s a client. Maybe it’s even a stranger.

🦸‍♀️We all have these people in our lives-- the ones whose expectations are really high. The ones who don’t understand a different way of making decisions or living. The ones whose hopes or ideas of success, accomplishment, or service are rather unrealistic or just out of alignment with ours.

❌The problem isn’t you.

❌The problem isn’t them either.

🥀The problem is an energetic mismatch.

⚡️There are lessons you can learn from these people:

3 Lessons to Learn From Mic Sharing with The Wrong People

1️⃣Sometimes the lesson is in how to protect yourself better-- where could it benefit you & others to rephrase something or ask in a different way? 

2️⃣Sometimes the lesson is in letting go & washing your hands. Recognizing-- this person’s ideas & desires are THEIRS, not yours…and you don’t need to indulge or deliver them.
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3️⃣Sometimes the lesson is in how you can up-level or improve. Did this person actually have a valid point or suggestion that if received well by you, could enable you to become BETTER?

How to Share Your Mic With the Right People

🔥How often do you try to grow and learn from the people you most want to punch in the face? Er, I mean that you most want to roll your eyes at. Probably not as often as you bitch about them, right?

🙅‍♀️Most people complain, vent, gossip & it can create a cycle that doesn’t serve anyone.

💃🏻Level up, girlfriend. 

❓Ask yourself some of the questions above & see what it does for your energy.

Have you allowed someone else to dictate your self worth? How did that go for you? Share in the comments below👇

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